In its simplest form, owning your power is recognizing ‘I can do it.’ It’s easy to feel confident and trust all is possible when you are able to affect the world around you. Thus, when results are going good, you feel capable, when results aren’t going well, you feel less capable, anxious or not enough. These feelings are stronger if over time you haven’t been able to create the level of career, relationship, health or emotional results you desire. This is due to unconscious conditioning which is learned belief patterns attached to people’s behavior and circumstances that produces how you feel automatically. These ingrained patterns are also why when others are upset you may feel you must help them feel better, in order to feel better, and when you can’t, you feel bad. Thus, your happiness is dependent upon your power to make others happy.
To heal such conditional patterns begins by learning to change how you define power in order to stay confident in your ability to create what you want.
- To increase faith in your power it’s important to recognize there is a huge difference between what you’ve learned to believe about yourself, how life works and what’s possible versus your true nature and how life really works. “However it’s going, my true nature is a being of creative and abundant energy that is every moment one with, supported by and partners co-creating with the abundant and creative energy of Life. Thus, I am more and more is possible than I’ve learned to believe, feel or create so far.” This isn’t about whether or not you already know or believe this, it’s about reminding yourself this is the higher truth wherever doubts and fears, overwhelm and anxiety arise in order to re-align with higher consciousness.
- Not being able to create the level of emotional, health or life changes doesn’t mean you can’t, it only means you haven’t yet. You may believe you’re doing all that is needed, when you’re only doing what you know how and believe necessary. Your desires inherently come with the ability to create them even if you haven’t yet learned how to focus the power of your choices to do so. Results may measure where you are in the process of creation, what you’ve learned so far or the effectiveness and consistency of your choices, but they don’t define you, your power to or what’s possible. Thus, lack of results is just feedback for shifting perspective, or to change the type, level or consistency of actions.
- Understand that no one can take your power from you. It may at times feel like this, but this is just a result of conditioning that causes your sense of power and physical energy to fluctuate. Even if you haven’t yet learned how to change these or other feelings, owning you have the ability to directly affect your feelings, independent of changing people or circumstances, opens you to focusing on shifting beliefs that limit you and giving yourself the support to stay confidently in the flow of creation
And, if you don’t know how to do any of these, then learning how is just part of the process. I’m here to help you transform these and other patterns so you can live the life you deserve